How to mend a relationship? or when withdrawal or distant started to happen on me or on him?

The situation that I'm facing currently, not willing to talk about money or future plan, silent when stress, or coming back from work. Choose to ignore me on question and answers on work, choose to ignore the problems that's arise between us or me.... withdraw from me. I dun feel like seeing him dissapointed and frust because feel he is stupidhe get scolded from me a0ll the time, but why he lie, coz he is scared that i ll scold him? so, listen to him? and just give comment?Rather than stopping him from doing the things that I think is not right or wise? Saying things like, if i were u, i wouldn't do that. Don't get angry easily. Be more confident with urself. Approach back the situation in a calm way, wait for him to get ready to come back to me. Wait for him to gain back his confidence with me, I like if he organized better and know more on what he is doing, Me, stop complaining but give comments more, give face, respect him, so that he would respect me back, Saying things or pointing out that Im doing this so that, I have chance or expect to accept it back from him on the total respect. he said I should stop work rather that he think is better to stop work, he felt useless for not being able to give me any help or booost of security. How to help in this situation...told him i could accept the truth if we work this out together, I need his help and honesty, and alertness rather than keeping me in a distant. but do working things out better works for him? It does't. So, I have to stop being the Ms. fix-It-All, it helps when we enjoy our relationship, live a life with him. So, what if I'm willing to give in and enjoy my life with him, make use of what we have currently and live and enjoy our relationship, I can get feedback and response back from him by saying things like im so sad, i don't know what to do...when is the good time...?